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Things I will NEVER do...

1. I will NEVER lose weight for a guy. Its either he likes me as is, or he might as well hit the highway. Why should I lose weight for someone else? I am not low in self esteem to ever be subjected to a body type. I love myself way too much.


2. I will NEVER do weird sexual things to keep a guy "happy", NEVER STORY. Why should I do uncomfortable thing to impress him when he cannot even bring me to climax? Why try anal and other kinky things if you are not interested?



3. I will NEVER end friendships for a guy. If we are going to drop friends, it will surely be him alone. My friends have been around for years, and they will be around after the relationship ends. So, Mna, I will never leave my friends for a guy.



4. I will NEVER give up my dreams for a guy. I cannot get with a man and then help him shape his dreams while my dreams are over there getting rusty. I always put myself as the first priority, I can love him but I won't forget my ambitions and dreams.



5. I will NEVER clean after a guy. Am I his house help? Nope, they say I should do things for him like cook which is okay but going out of my way like it’s my duty is not a requirement. Finish and Klaar!



6. I will NEVER change myself to suit a guy. There’s a way a man will inspire me to get better but if he keeps telling me that I need to lose weight, to change my hair and not positive criticism then this is not okay. My own is simple, take your leave baba.



7. I will NEVER be a yes woman so I don't annoy him. Being a yes woman is all cute until the day u tell him no & he doesn’t understand y u’re disrespectful. If u’re the type of woman who doesn’t like saying the truth b/c u’re scared u will chase him away then u’re really shallow.



8. I will NEVER downplay my intelligence to make him feel superior. I cannot be there entertaining a man and his weaknesses so that he doesn’t leave. Then, CLEARLY... I'm too much for of a woman for him. Simple as that. Bye Felicia.

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